Its amazing how you grow. You 10 years from now may never be able to relate to you 10 years before.So what's the big deal? Its almost like metamorphosis...worth the evolvement from horrid worm person to chysalistic life charted by the horrid worm person into a charming and sophisticated insect with wings...lol..pretty wings too. So for all the 40 year olds or a little under that number....reassesment of self can bring out astute changes for the next 10 years to come.